Here's a sign you picked the wrong co-founder:
Every decision turns into a war.
In a previous company, we couldn't align on anything.
Product. Strategy. Marketing.
Even tech.
The guy wasn't even a dev —
But he still tried to force frontend frameworks on us.
The man had no idea what impostor syndrome meant.
At some point, you stop fighting.
You let things slide.
You go along with bad ideas, just to prove they'll fail.
And when they do — guess what?
They'll tell you it's your job to figure out why.
That's not just tiring.
It's destructive.
For morale. For momentum. For the company.
Today, it's night and day.
Fabien and I challenge each other all the time —
But it's never about ego.
We zoom out.
We ask: « what's the goal? »
Which path gets us closer to it?
Then we move. No drama. No bullshit.
This is what real partnership looks like.
That's how we built BuddiesHR.
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