Last week, someone told me: "You don't have kids, that's why you don't need to chase VC-money."
Let me tell you why he's f*cking WRONG...
First, let’s get one thing straight: VCs are not running a charity.
They are not your startup’s sugar daddy, savior, OR safety net.
They are looking for one thing only:
↳ Upside.
They don’t care if you have kids, four mortgages, or your entire extended family counting on your paycheck.
They don’t CARE why you’re raising.
They care if you’re ready to scale.
Let’s call this out for what it is:
↳ You only get VC money if you look like a F*CKING ROCKETSHIP.
No traction? No metrics? No dice.
Kids or not, nobody’s wiring you millions just because “it’s harder for you.” That’s fantasy land.
Here’s what really happens for 95% of founders:
1/ You grind and bootstrap.
2/ You beg, scrap, and hustle for every paying customer.
3/ You build metrics that make VCs drool.
And THEN, maybe, you raise.
Exceptions? Sure. If you shipped code at Google Brain for ten years, or you already returned a fund, you get a pass. Maybe you raise with a napkin and zero stress.
But guess what?
Nobody gives a sh*t about your family obligations then, either.
It’s NOT empathy. It’s track record.
Everyone else?
You need product, growth, and one hell of a story. Not a sob story.
At BuddiesHR, we did it the hard, ugly, brutal way.
No VC safety net. Just pure execution.
If you want to build something real, forget the kids excuse, forget the fundraising fantasy.
Build something that prints results.
Because if you don’t have the numbers, it doesn’t matter what else you have.
That’s the real f*cking world.
Stay lethal. Stay lean. Stay bootstrapped.
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