Once you raise VC money, you are no longer building a business...
You are building an OUTCOME
And “outcome” means ONE thing: a liquidity event your investors can brag about at overpriced steak dinners.
VCs don’t give a damn about your healthy, cash-flowing business.
All they see is: exit, exit, exit.
So what happens?
You enter purgatory.
You’re not free to sell. You’re not free to chill. You’re not free to profit.
Let’s break down what most founders learn the hard way:
1/ You can’t sell.
M&A market is anemic. Even if you find a buyer, guess who has veto power? Your investors — and they’ll block anything that doesn’t make their spreadsheet sing.
2/ You can’t raise more.
Down rounds? Forget it. VCs ghost you faster than your “beta signups.” Nobody wants to follow a losing bet.
3/ You can’t take money out.
Healthy profits? Congrats — you’re not seeing a dime. Every dollar must be “reinvested for growth.” Translation: pay for headcount bloat, pointless perks, and maybe another fruitless turn in the “pivot” hamster wheel.
Net result:
You’re running on someone else’s treadmill.
No exit. No freedom. No cash.
Just quiet desperation. And a cap table that reads like a ransom note.
That’s why at BuddiesHR we said NO to this charade:
↳ No chasing phantom term sheets.
↳ No board meetings dictating nonsense.
↳ No “growth at all costs” — just growth that pays.
Bootstrapping is the only way you keep options unclipped.
You want to sell? Sell.
You want to stay profitable? Smile and cash the checks.
You want to chill out for a month and breathe? Go for it.
VCs love to call themselves partners.
But a real partner doesn’t keep you shackled to their outcome.
Founders: pick your poison.
Build a business, or build someone else’s exit.
You can’t do both.
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